Reading with children isn’t only about teaching them words on a page. It’s about giving them a way to understand feelings that can feel too big to name — fear before trying something new, sadness when a friend lets them down, or frustration when things don’t go their way. A book can quietly step in where words are hard to find.
Stories as Emotional Mirrors
Children don’t always know how to say, “I feel scared” or “I’m lonely.” But when they see a character go through those emotions, it clicks. They recognise themselves in the story and suddenly realise they’re not alone.
Building Empathy
Stories also help children notice other people’s feelings. They practise stepping into someone else’s shoes — which, over time, makes them more thoughtful and kinder in real life. That’s a big part of resilience too: knowing we’re all connected.
Gentle Lessons in Problem-Solving
The heroes in children’s books don’t always win easily. They stumble, struggle, and try again. Watching a character face challenges with courage (even if it’s messy) shows children that problems can be worked through—one small step at a time.
Why Reading Together Helps
Of course, kids can read on their own. But sitting down together adds something special. Talking about the story afterwards — asking, “How do you think they felt?” or “What would you have done?” — makes the lessons stick and strengthens the bond between reader and listener.
Bringing It Home
Resilience doesn’t come from avoiding difficulties. It grows when children learn that feelings pass, challenges can be faced, and strength builds slowly, like turning one page after another.
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